While they all share the common thread of family military service, residents come to the National Home from all over the country and bring with them a wide range of experiences and needs. Like anyone moving to a new community, one of the first challenges these new families face is making friends in their new neighborhood.
Fortunately for our families, the National Home community does not lack for networking opportunities, starting with the many classes and support groups for parents. These meetings offer new families the chance to get to know each other and learn from one another’s experiences in a safe and caring environment. Class offerings are both practical and fun, ranging from financial planning, parenting and other life skills to homemade holiday treats, square-foot gardening and relaxation techniques.
Financial class participants learn about having a spending plan, protecting their 4 walls (food, clothing, shelter, and transportation), setting realistic financial goals and making them work in the real world. Residents learn the basics of credit scores and debt to income ratio. Participants describe the classes as highly informative yet down to earth and designed to assist anyone. The instructors, who come from a local credit union, have assisted many residents with budgeting and other financial questions — even after the classes are over.
Parenting classes cover a range of topics like setting appropriate limits, finding discipline techniques that work and other common parenting challenges. Parents say that they enjoy the chance to share their parenting highs and lows within the group and to learn from one another’s experiences. Single parents on campus also benefit from a single-parent support group. This provides residents with the opportunity to share their life’s experiences in a safe and supportive environment where learn they have common ground and that they are not alone with their burdens.
Beginning in 2012, residents have enjoyed taking part in the National Home’s new DIY workshop series. These workshops give residents the opportunity to learn about and feel empowered to tackle common household tasks themselves instead of relying on store-bought products or purchased services. Topics have included batch cooking, basic sewing, gardening and homemade holidays, among others. These fun, but practical, workshops have been a hit with residents, who say they can’t wait to see what new topics the instructors will come up with each month.
It’s clear residents gain much more than practical skills from the classes offered at the National Home. They gain confidence, community connections and the beginnings of lifelong friendships, all of which will serve them well beyond their days living at the National Home.